It is so annoying to lose contact with people we were attached to simply because they never pointed out what they actually needed. There is nothing as hard as figuring out what you might have done to lose them.

Your relationship or marriage is in the verge of collapsing just because you don’t say what you actually feel or want. Constant fights with your partner has become a norm and trust me one person is clueless of what is actually happening. Men have been victims for a very long time. We put too much pressure on them to figure out what the lady wants or else there will be no peace. Come on, he is not a mind reader if you want something just ask.

You feel wronged by a friend, instead of holding grudges why not talk about it? Maybe it’s just a misunderstanding. Why harbor hate over something that can be solved? True friendships are hard to come by now days treasure it. People make mistakes and should be given a chance to redeem themselves especially if they were not aware they wronged you.

Family is very important but since we nolonger take time to talk about issues that led to conflicts we ghost each other. No one is perfect, your parents may have unknowingly done something that made you unhappy but since you don’t want to talk about it the bond is broken. You will hear someone say they hate their mother because of what she did to them while they were young. Come to think of it, she may not remember that or even know the impact her actions had on you. It will not cost you anything to talk to her about it.

Neighbors nolonger live in harmony because hatred has build up over time. Your clueless neighbor is wondering why you nolonger say hello when you meet reason being you heard they gossiped about you. Why not approach them and get facts it will bring closure on what really transpired.

Communication is key in everything we do. Once in a while we are bound to make mistakes whether knowingly or unknowingly. Learning to speak up will save us the trouble of hating people we love and holding grudges over minor issues. Carrying a heavy heart is one of the hardest burden to carry.